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66 | 0 |  Jun 28 2009, 06:28 PMIn: Public Grief / Private Grief By: MartyT |
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Anticipatory Grief and Mourning
Extended illness, disability, severe accidental injury, a terminal diagnosis, or the aging and decline of an elderly family member can produce anticipatory grief. We are reacting and continually adapting not only to an expected loss, but to all the losses -- past, present, and future -- we encounter in that experience. These cumulative losses can shatter our assumptive world, cause us great confusion and challenge our most basic spiritual and philosophical beliefs. The resulting grief can affect us physically, emotionally, cognitively, socially and spiritually. Here we will comfort and support one another as we identify, confront and mourn these many losses. Forum Led by: MartyT |
15 | 204 | Jun 30 2009, 06:10 PM In: Dealing With My Grief By: grievingalone |
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Behaviors in Bereavement
Been wondering if you are crazy? Forgetting the day or the time of day? Missing appointments? Not sleeping or eating properly? These are all normal and natural responses to grief. Share your experience with others. Forum Led by: MartyT |
474 | 4,205 | Jun 30 2009, 11:01 AM In: Conversation Drought By: valley |
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Loss of an Infant, Child or Grandchild
There is nothing so wrenching as the death of a child, regardless of the child's age. This forum brings together those who have experienced such a loss, including miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss and the death of a child or grandchild. Forum Led by: MartyT |
116 | 467 | Jun 30 2009, 01:37 PM In: 9 Months By: Yolonda |
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Loss of a Spouse, Partner, or Significant Other
When a husband, wife, partner, or significant other dies, life changes completely. Your identity is now different, and your entire world may have been turned upside down. Here you can share your thoughts, feelings and reactions with others whose experiences may be similar to your own. Forum Led by: MartyT |
1,389 | 12,877 | Today, 06:05 PM In: Whats The Sense? By: mrspapajohn |
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Loss of a Parent or Grandparent
In our society, the death of a parent or grandparent is assumed to be part of the 'Natural Order of Things.' Tell that to the son, daughter or grandchild who has just lost his or her best friend. Loving (and, perhaps, conflictual) relationships with a parent over many years cement a bond not so easily broken when death occurs. Forum Led by: MartyT |
813 | 5,255 | Today, 05:13 AM In: I Keep Having Dreams About Mom By: MartyT |
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Loss of a Sibling or Twin
Special issues arise when our brother or sister dies, no matter how old we are at the time. We may feel as if part of our own identity is lost. Whatever part our sibling would have played in our future is lost as well, casting a bittersweet shadow over everything that happens to us regardless of how wonderful it may be. Because our sibling is our peer, we’re suddenly acutely aware of our own mortality, and we may be wondering how many years of living we have left. We may blame ourselves for our sibling’s death, or even feel guilty for being the surviving child. We may suddenly feel totally alone in our responsibilities toward our parents as they grow older – or feel somehow obligated to set aside our own grief for our parents’ sake, as well as for the other family members our sibling has left behind. In this forum we are not alone; we can connect with others who’ve endured this special kind of loss. Forum Led by: MartyT |
98 | 286 | Jun 11 2009, 12:47 PM In: My Brother Died Of A Heroine O... By: MartyT |
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Loss of a Friend
The death of a close friend may be considered by others as less significant than that of a family member, and bereaved friends may feel completely left out of the grieving process, as if they don’t have a legitimate right to grieve, or permission to mourn their loss. Yet for many of us, “friendgrief” can be more painful and troubling than the death of a relative. Close friends are precious and irreplaceable, and their loss is certainly worthy of grief. Forum Led by: MartyT |
10 | 87 | Jun 18 2009, 06:27 PM In: My Friend By: cubby |
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Loss of a Love Relationship
Whenever there is a loss of something significant in our lives, we suffer grief. When an intimate love relationship ends – whether we were married, living together with a partner or significant other, or committed to another as part of a couple – the separation can be overwhelmingly painful. Usually for a death there is a set ritual with a funeral or memorial service, and some understanding in our culture that mourning is important. But for the death of a love relationship, there is no prescribed ritual of mourning, and the accompanying grief that is part of the divorce / breaking-up process is seldom acknowledged or accepted. The ending of a love relationship is yet another kind of death, and here we are invited to share our experiences, mourn what has been lost, and offer information, comfort and support to one another as we move forward together on this journey. Forum Led by: MartyT |
11 | 230 | Jun 13 2009, 05:01 PM In: The Death Of A Marriage By: kayc |
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Loss of a Pet
Companion animals offer a kind of loyalty, devotion and unconditional love that cannot be found in the more complicated relationships we have with relatives, friends and neighbors. Pain over the loss of a beloved pet is as natural as the pain we'd feel over the loss of any significant relationship -- but sometimes the loss of a special animal is trivialized by others as insignificant, as if you don't have a legitimate right to grieve. Here you'll find the understanding, comfort and support you need and deserve. Forum Led by: MartyT |
418 | 1,912 | Today, 02:10 PM In: Puppy Killed By Car Right In F... By: ForeverDaisyBellesMom |
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General Grief & Loss Topics
This is an area where you can dicuss topics around death, loss, and bereavement in general. Forum Led by: MartyT |
116 | 831 | Jun 29 2009, 12:13 PM In: Could I Have Done More? By: well_what_now |
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New Beginnings
As you continue to come to terms with the impact of loss on your life, you may notice your focus shifting from why this death happened to how you have grown through this experience to become a stronger person. With some satisfaction, you’ll look back on all the new tasks you have mastered, the new roles you’ve had to fill, the changes you’ve endured, and recognize how you’ve grown. As you ponder where you’ve been, where you are now and what needs to happen next, you may see a whole new you looking back at you in the mirror – someone who’s stronger, kinder and wiser than the person you once were. Forum Led by: MartyT |
29 | 326 | Jun 24 2009, 03:36 PM In: 10 Dating Tips For Widows, Wid... By: Stallyn |
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Poetry of Grief & Loss
Sometimes the pain is so great that simple words do not suffice. Poetry can evoke emotions in ways that prose cannot. Take a look at some the poetry members have contributed. Forum Led by: MartyT |
125 | 155 | Jun 19 2009, 08:21 AM In: Grief's Blindfold By: Rachel T |
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Teens Talking To Teens
Grief and loss for adolescents is a thing unto itself. It's not necessarily a place for adults to jump in. What needs to be said is often better said teen-to-teen. Use this forum, Teens, and call on us adults if you need us; otherwise, this is your group. Just remember, you have to be 13 years or older to be here, or younger with permission of an adult. Forum Led by: MartyT |
27 | 62 | Mar 28 2009, 07:01 AM In: My Mom By: moparlicious |
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Grief Gone Wild
This forum is reserved for those young people participating in this summer's "Grief Gone Wild" wilderness experience for grieving teens. Forum Led by: MartyT |
3 | 5 | Jul 28 2007, 08:22 PM In: Hey! How Is Every1? By: Marcus |
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Honoring a Spouse, Partner, Significant Other
Here is a space to pay tribute to the person who has died. Use this area to write something that the rest of us might read. Forum Led by: MartyT |
29 | 40 | Apr 26 2009, 09:01 PM In: Hope Tom Would Be Proud. By: mlg |
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Honoring a Lost Child
Here is a space to pay tribute to the person who has died. Use this area to write something that the rest of us might read. Forum Led by: MartyT |
13 | 10 | Jun 1 2009, 09:04 AM In: Walk To Remember By: MartyT |
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Honoring the Dead
Here is a space to pay tribute to the person who has died. Use this area to write something that the rest of us might read. Forum Led by: MartyT |
35 | 84 | May 31 2009, 12:51 PM In: Rembering A Friend By: Gamer205 |
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Your Comments
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